I have had questions since I posted about the online dating post, However seems alot of you are afraid to make your comments live on the site, If you do wish to post you can make it anonymous so no one has to know who you are, not even I will!
One of the main questions you were sending into me is " How to know if he really likes me"
Simple answer to that, is you will never really know how a man is feeling, for the simple fact that men do not like to show or share their feelings as much as we do. Some men feel the need to tell you how amazing you are because they feel like they have too, which makes the whole situation even more confusing.
There is a few things I have picked up from dating ( Not that I am some sort of expert, because you only need to look at my past relationships to know that).
1) They like to spend time with you, and would normally spend time with their family or friends, or even something so simple like going to the gym after work, Yet makes a date with you.
2) He likes to text you and know what your up too or to ask what your view is about something, Maybe he asks for your help on a situation.
3) He sees something in a shop and thinks of you, he may also pick it up ( This could be something simple as a drink you told him you liked, which he said he has not tried, yet buys it because he thinks of you and wants to see if he similar tastes to yours)
4) They like to touch you, And no I am not talking, randomly grabbing a tit while you out walking. I am talking about making excuses to touch you ( You have a piece of fluff on your top), or even the simple holding hands or putting his arm around you. Some men also express they like you via cuddles. - Public displays of affection are always good, as it means hes happy to tell people that he likes you and is not afraid his mate is going to walk past.
5) They will try and impress you, even if what they are trying to impress you with seems a little odd ( Ie look how many weights i can lift)
6) They will like to experience you to new things, take you to a restaurant you have never been too, take you paint balling. Going with this means that your open to try new things, and things do not always need to be on your terms.
I must stress that while all these signals normally mean that a guy is into you, it may also mean that he is just being friendly and wanting to get to know you more.
Allot of girls jump far to quickly ( Yes I admit i have done too) but its all about taking it slow and seeing what happens, that makes the whole relationship far more interesting, While I like to know where I stand with a guy, I do not expect him to declare his love to me on the first date (Unlike some girls).
Men Buying girls
I do not feel the need to be bought and I do not understand why some girls feel the need to test the men and see what they can get out of them, if your dating someone your not with them for the fact of "what you can get out of them" you are with someone because you like to spend time with them, and want to get to know them more. I am the first to admit, that guys have spent alot of serious money on me in the past, but that has not changed how I feel about someone, or how long we where together.
For me personally, a guys attention, love and commitment to you are for more satisfying than if he can by me a bunch of flowers every week!
Dating more than one person
I have been sent lots of questions about dating while interested in one particular person. For me personally I am a one guy only girl, I will only date one guy at a time. I have had comments from my male friends saying I am limiting myself to that one person, and in some sense putting a lot of pressure on to that person. I personally do not see it as that, as who and how many people I choose to go out with has nothing to do with anyone else. Personally I do not feel the need to play around. If I have meet someone I like why would I then feel the need to go out and check that I have made the correct choice into putting my time, energy and effort into getting to know someone.
If a guy is lucky enough to have my attention, then he still has to work for it, I may text back pretty much right away (Simply because I am not into messing about and making him think I'm busy or so on, when I am not), but the simple fact is, he will only have my attention for as long as he keeps me interested. If I become bored I will spend less time talking to him, and have been known in the past to have told people I am bored. - This was nothing against them, or the fact they bored me, more to do with the fact that everything was the same, it felt like it was going no where. I like to feel like each day is different.
If you honestly deeply connect with someone you will know right away if they are someone you could potentially have a relationship with. So as to if you should date more than one person, I have to say it depends on you, Some people feel the need to date many people at once, others do not.
Should I assume we are together Officially -
Deffinatly NOT! why you may think all the signs your together are there, for him they might not be. He still might be happy to play the field check out the other girls out there. Men seem to always think there could possibly be someone better, and like to look and check out what there missing.
Only then, will he be ready to commit fully with you. Girls please do not nag at your man, and demand him to leave this site and not see his female friends ( How would you like to be told you cant see your friends, or have a jealous guy jumping down your neck all the time?) I have been in a jealous relationship, He kept on at me daily sometimes more, accusing me of cheating. In the end things got so bad that I ended up kissing this particular guy, and this is when i then called it off, to then find out that my boyfriend was cheating on me anyway! A physco jealous partner puts a lot of stress on you.
However on the other hand if you have been dating your guy for months and months and even years.. I would possibly ask what the hell is going on here!
Showing affectionate publicly -
Personally this is diffrent for everyone, this depends on if you would feel happy showing off your feelings publicly. No I do not mean you need to do naughty things ( Some of the crazy things I have seen) I just mean kiss's and cuddles.
For me I am happy holding hands, kissing, cuddling, I would find it werid if someone I was with didn't want to do that, or feel comfortable enough to do that, for the fact it would make my insecurities come out and id be thinking " Is he ashamed to be seen with me". Again, this would be my problem and I would have to deal with it.
There is also a part of me, which thinks to much affection in public is way to much. I am not someone who needs to be holding hands all the time, or kissing, i can have my own space and enjoy my own space, that I do not need to feel I need someone there all the time.
Would you stop hanging with your friends for someone?
This is the question I hear the most among my friends because its always "so and so is with so and so and has not seen us for however long".
Personally for me, I feel its healthy for a relationship to have space away from you other half, when you start dating someone you work because they fit into your life with out making too much effort in the first place. Why would you then want to make it so intence that you spend every minuite with that person, you both need to breath and be able to do your own thing with out the other.
So go plan your girls nights out and tell him to plan his boys night! - It will make you stronger in the long run!
Do you think its ok for your man to go away on his own?
This for me is down to how secure you are with yourself and your relationship. I would not see the problem with someone I was with going of on holiday for a week or so on there own, while I stayed at home, For the main reason, I am not too fussed about going out into the big wide world, I have my son to think about and I feel that he has to live his life to, so if that is getting off to America then ill be happy with that. Id just plan lots of activities to keep my mind off him!
When to introduce you kids to your partner?
This is a hard one, In the past I have introduced Leo to my boyfriends pretty early on, and they were in my life pretty much daily. Which in the long run, maybe was not the best Idea.
If I introduced someone new to leo, I would make sure he new they were just a friend, and maybe not let leo be arround him as much as I have allowed it in the past.
I do however think its good for the kids to get to know a potential partner, because they are the main part in your life and if they do not get on then you will not work! - Maybe do something fun with both the kids (If your partner has kids) So its not so intense, something, fun and active the kids enjoy and will take the focus off the potential partner. Something like swimming, meet up for a few hours go swimming, introduce them as a friend and their child as a play date.
For me if I am dating someone with kids, I wait till he asks if id like to meet up with him and his kid.
* My opinions on questions emailed to me from yourself s, there is so many to get through that this is part one! Hope you enjoy reading!
Sunday, 12 May 2013
Simply Be Sexy Must Haves
We all want to feel sexy, here is my top must haves from Simply Be size's 12- 34 -
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Naturally Close Ruffles Babydoll £15.60 |
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Splendour Print Chemise Length £26 |
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MAGISCULPT Seamed Lace Full Slip £36 |
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Pack 2 Lace Top Hold Ups £16 |
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Splendour Plain Chemise £26 |
Iron Man 3 Sonic Blasting toy
I was sent to review a amazing Iron Man 3 Sonic Blasting toy which has a retail price of £29.99.
The product was much larger than I thought it was as Iorn Man's legs are not attached in the box, you simply clip them one once you get him out making him a big 38cm tall.
As soon as this arrived Leo could not wait to get him out, so much so that I was unable to get a picture of him un boxing it, it was simple and very easy that he managed to get it out on his own (which is always a added bonus, as i hate taking forever trying to get toys out of the packaging or having to use scissors.)
Once out leo could not wait to play with him and check out all of his features. We noticed (not being a big instructions girl) that there was a need for 3 AAA batteries, which required you to have a screwdriver ( something I personally do not own) , So this was out of the question for us at this stage.
Never the less leo was going to have fun with this toy, in no time at all he found out how to shoot the motorized rotating missile blaster that fires five projectiles, and luckily comes with 5 more incase like us, manage to lose them, and the carpet seem to eat it.
Whats more is that if your child does decide to aim the missiles at you they do not hurt ( Like Leo he simply thinks its fine and not dangerous to do this, which he does get told off about many times)
* I was sent to review this as part of the Markettiers4dc parenting Broadcast Blogger NetWork.
The product was much larger than I thought it was as Iorn Man's legs are not attached in the box, you simply clip them one once you get him out making him a big 38cm tall.
As soon as this arrived Leo could not wait to get him out, so much so that I was unable to get a picture of him un boxing it, it was simple and very easy that he managed to get it out on his own (which is always a added bonus, as i hate taking forever trying to get toys out of the packaging or having to use scissors.)
Once out leo could not wait to play with him and check out all of his features. We noticed (not being a big instructions girl) that there was a need for 3 AAA batteries, which required you to have a screwdriver ( something I personally do not own) , So this was out of the question for us at this stage.
Never the less leo was going to have fun with this toy, in no time at all he found out how to shoot the motorized rotating missile blaster that fires five projectiles, and luckily comes with 5 more incase like us, manage to lose them, and the carpet seem to eat it.
Whats more is that if your child does decide to aim the missiles at you they do not hurt ( Like Leo he simply thinks its fine and not dangerous to do this, which he does get told off about many times)
Rating - 4.5/5
* I was sent to review this as part of the Markettiers4dc parenting Broadcast Blogger NetWork.
Thursday, 9 May 2013
online dating saga
As many of you are aware durring the last year or so I have been on dating websites, been the fave of one and been on a few dates. However a few things keep coming up not just to me but with other women too.
I asked myself are then on these websites genuine or are they just full of sad pathetic liers who simply love and crave attention so much so that they make up names and stories in the hope they do not get found out?
I have paid for dating websites thinking they will have people on the site who are genuine and looking for love to find im getting sent messages saying "fuck me bet your good at tit wanks" Iean coming from a little boy I wouldnt batter a eyelid but coming from some old wrinkly 56yr old rather makes it a little more annoying.
Yeah Yeah I hear people make excuses for these weridos all the time saying men are behind... is this really a worthy excuse too use for some prat trying to please his manhood?
During the last few years on many of the sites I have used I have meet some odd people. People in which I really thought I was getting to know....
So let me tell you about some the men I have dated (names have been changed)
Ryan-
Lied about his age and said was 28 when was really 16 (just looked older) claimed he was single when he had a girlfriend and baby on way.
Ross-
Was 39yrs old and his problem was he had to be home by 11 and kept calling his mum (or so I was told)
James-
When we meet talked about his daughter all time however after a few dates went quite. After 2 months re appeared said his daughter had died. Later that week I went over to his there was sorry cards, he forced himself to cry... I offered to go to funeral with him. Luckily for me something felt wrong so a friend messaged him on his date site and he told her he spent weekend qoth him daughter. .. I messaged hos ex wife to find out this story as a normal one he had used before and not only that but he was married. ..
Joel-
Meet a few times turned out to be a dad at leos school.. however after 2 weeks kept telling me he was playing with himself and wanted dirty pics.
Kev-
Worked in the hospital meet for drinka many times we seemed to get on well then afyer 3 weeks kwpt trying to get a invite to come over.. once I told him im not interested and I think he still loved his ex he told me he wanted to be friends (guys way of saying im just not that into you or want to talk again)
That is just a small selection of the men I have meet online. This got me thinking are we really safe when meet someone online??
I read somewhere about something (cant remember name but ill be back to post) about how abused women and men can find out their partners past if the social services and police think its relevant and could effect you. Ideally for this this would be a fantastic idea but why limet it too people who are abused?
I for one would of loved to have known my past boyfriend s and protential dates pasts to have known what I was getting myself into. I do not feel its right to allow people to be able to hide from thier pasts and potentially repeat the experience s.
Having been in bad relationships where police have been involved and alot of stress pain and terror have occurred knowing the full background of someone can limit this. I have expeienced fake names which too is something that happwns alot and I personally think that something needs to be done about this.
What I do not understand how thoes who are in trouble with police or have been or even been inside are then protected and potentially putting others at risk. I no someone who is a high danger to people around them yet are free to live a normal life under a new name.. thwy have been in press and been in and out of jail yet still free to do as he pleases and prays on girls online under a fake name!!
Does these sites let you abuse them and do as you please. Is it alllowing predators to use the site.
I am on one website where if I send in a image of myself I then get told my profile has been marked a high rating due to my looks and that my profile will be featured first. Is this thway society is? How would you feel being told you were rated low because of your looks? Come on people this is not right!
I am sick of the way people treat you online and some of the horrible things they right.. I mean come on do you really think questions like "how bog are your tits" "I wanto fuck you" and "my cock is so hard right now" are appropriate conversation atarters??
Whats your views?
*sorry no spell check was used, will be back to sort it once not on phone.
I asked myself are then on these websites genuine or are they just full of sad pathetic liers who simply love and crave attention so much so that they make up names and stories in the hope they do not get found out?
I have paid for dating websites thinking they will have people on the site who are genuine and looking for love to find im getting sent messages saying "fuck me bet your good at tit wanks" Iean coming from a little boy I wouldnt batter a eyelid but coming from some old wrinkly 56yr old rather makes it a little more annoying.
Yeah Yeah I hear people make excuses for these weridos all the time saying men are behind... is this really a worthy excuse too use for some prat trying to please his manhood?
During the last few years on many of the sites I have used I have meet some odd people. People in which I really thought I was getting to know....
So let me tell you about some the men I have dated (names have been changed)
Ryan-
Lied about his age and said was 28 when was really 16 (just looked older) claimed he was single when he had a girlfriend and baby on way.
Ross-
Was 39yrs old and his problem was he had to be home by 11 and kept calling his mum (or so I was told)
James-
When we meet talked about his daughter all time however after a few dates went quite. After 2 months re appeared said his daughter had died. Later that week I went over to his there was sorry cards, he forced himself to cry... I offered to go to funeral with him. Luckily for me something felt wrong so a friend messaged him on his date site and he told her he spent weekend qoth him daughter. .. I messaged hos ex wife to find out this story as a normal one he had used before and not only that but he was married. ..
Joel-
Meet a few times turned out to be a dad at leos school.. however after 2 weeks kept telling me he was playing with himself and wanted dirty pics.
Kev-
Worked in the hospital meet for drinka many times we seemed to get on well then afyer 3 weeks kwpt trying to get a invite to come over.. once I told him im not interested and I think he still loved his ex he told me he wanted to be friends (guys way of saying im just not that into you or want to talk again)
That is just a small selection of the men I have meet online. This got me thinking are we really safe when meet someone online??
I read somewhere about something (cant remember name but ill be back to post) about how abused women and men can find out their partners past if the social services and police think its relevant and could effect you. Ideally for this this would be a fantastic idea but why limet it too people who are abused?
I for one would of loved to have known my past boyfriend s and protential dates pasts to have known what I was getting myself into. I do not feel its right to allow people to be able to hide from thier pasts and potentially repeat the experience s.
Having been in bad relationships where police have been involved and alot of stress pain and terror have occurred knowing the full background of someone can limit this. I have expeienced fake names which too is something that happwns alot and I personally think that something needs to be done about this.
What I do not understand how thoes who are in trouble with police or have been or even been inside are then protected and potentially putting others at risk. I no someone who is a high danger to people around them yet are free to live a normal life under a new name.. thwy have been in press and been in and out of jail yet still free to do as he pleases and prays on girls online under a fake name!!
Does these sites let you abuse them and do as you please. Is it alllowing predators to use the site.
I am on one website where if I send in a image of myself I then get told my profile has been marked a high rating due to my looks and that my profile will be featured first. Is this thway society is? How would you feel being told you were rated low because of your looks? Come on people this is not right!
I am sick of the way people treat you online and some of the horrible things they right.. I mean come on do you really think questions like "how bog are your tits" "I wanto fuck you" and "my cock is so hard right now" are appropriate conversation atarters??
Whats your views?
*sorry no spell check was used, will be back to sort it once not on phone.
Wednesday, 8 May 2013
gemma-collins simply be new range.
Calling all plus size Towie Fans, Simply be will be doing a plus size range right the way up to a plus size 32!
Some of you fans may all ready know that simply be had some designs for Gemma's before, but the items only went up to a size 24, which ment that us lady's who are bigger than that, were unable to buy the products!
However I am very exsited to tell you that you will be able to get them up to a size 32 very soon!
I will let you know when your able to buy, in the mean time check out the range currently available here.
The Foodie Show Dorset,
The Foodie Show Dorset Is organized by Joe Wahnon, who is a former market trader and presented a show on shopping channel QVC selling tools. He Started the Foodie Shows as a Family Venture.
The Foodie Show Dorset takes place from May 10 to 12 at Dorchester football ground, it will have 150 stands and will feature 2012 Big Brother winner Luke Anderson, who is a trained chef.
Also Russell Brown of Sienna restaurant in Dorchester and TV chef Mark Lloyd. Romy Gill Television (chef) is due to open a new restaurant in Thornbury, north of Bristol, where she is based but is promising to bring a taste of India to the Foodie Show Dorset.
There will be a crafter’s marquee featuring 12 of the top UK crafters as well as TV crafter Debbie Moore.
There will be a range of cuisine will be on offer from Filipino to Hawaiian as well as steaks, cheeses, gluten free products, an assortment of oils, liqueurs and wines and exotic meats such as zebra, kangaroo, boar, bison and llama.
Organiser Joe Wahnon said“People can watch the cooking demonstrations, there’s Punch and Judy for the kids and Robin Hood and his merry men dressed up, we’ll have live Mexican music going on and the biggest array of food that you wouldn’t find anywhere else in this area. It will be nice to have something a bit different in Dorchester, There’s a lot of small food shows around, but I want people to be able to go to a show where there’s traders not just from Dorset but from all over the county."
The Event is taking place in Dorchester Football Ground on the 10th-12th May.
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The Foodie Show Dorset takes place from May 10 to 12 at Dorchester football ground, it will have 150 stands and will feature 2012 Big Brother winner Luke Anderson, who is a trained chef.
Also Russell Brown of Sienna restaurant in Dorchester and TV chef Mark Lloyd. Romy Gill Television (chef) is due to open a new restaurant in Thornbury, north of Bristol, where she is based but is promising to bring a taste of India to the Foodie Show Dorset.
There will be a crafter’s marquee featuring 12 of the top UK crafters as well as TV crafter Debbie Moore.
There will be a range of cuisine will be on offer from Filipino to Hawaiian as well as steaks, cheeses, gluten free products, an assortment of oils, liqueurs and wines and exotic meats such as zebra, kangaroo, boar, bison and llama.
Organiser Joe Wahnon said“People can watch the cooking demonstrations, there’s Punch and Judy for the kids and Robin Hood and his merry men dressed up, we’ll have live Mexican music going on and the biggest array of food that you wouldn’t find anywhere else in this area. It will be nice to have something a bit different in Dorchester, There’s a lot of small food shows around, but I want people to be able to go to a show where there’s traders not just from Dorset but from all over the county."
The Event is taking place in Dorchester Football Ground on the 10th-12th May.
Friday 10th, Saturday 11th. 10am - 8pm
Sunday 12th. 10am - 5pm
Sunday 12th. 10am - 5pm
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Saturday, 4 May 2013
Qwick Easy Quiche
QUICHE LORRAINE
INGREDIENTS
100 Plain flour
Pinch Salt
25g white fat/ 25g hard margarine/stalk
4 tablespoons cold water
125ml milk
2 eggs
Salt and pepper
50g cooked bacon
50g cheese, grated
1 tomato (optional)
1 Onion (chopped and fried)
Light the oven, Gas 5 or 190C
Linea flan dish (18cm in diameter) or rub with butter to stop it from sticking
Make the pastry:
Rub the fat into the flour, add the cold water, mix to a soft dough and knead lightly, roll it out and put it into the pastry case.
The filling:
Put the bacon, onion and cheese into the pastry case evenly
Beat the eggs, milk, salt and pepper together (so its smooth texture like omlett)
Pour over the bacon, onion and cheese
Slice the tomato and place on the top if you want it.
Bake for approx. 30-40 mins until golden and firm to the touc
INGREDIENTS
100 Plain flour
Pinch Salt
25g white fat/ 25g hard margarine/stalk
4 tablespoons cold water
125ml milk
2 eggs
Salt and pepper
50g cooked bacon
50g cheese, grated
1 tomato (optional)
1 Onion (chopped and fried)
Light the oven, Gas 5 or 190C
Linea flan dish (18cm in diameter) or rub with butter to stop it from sticking
Make the pastry:
Rub the fat into the flour, add the cold water, mix to a soft dough and knead lightly, roll it out and put it into the pastry case.
The filling:
Put the bacon, onion and cheese into the pastry case evenly
Beat the eggs, milk, salt and pepper together (so its smooth texture like omlett)
Pour over the bacon, onion and cheese
Slice the tomato and place on the top if you want it.
Bake for approx. 30-40 mins until golden and firm to the touc
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